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About Ilja and Fleur
In Search Of embodies what connects us as a couple. Affection and admiration. Sincerity and dedication. And the desire for inner growth. We are each other’s companion and witness to all that life brings us. That makes therapy for us just as valuable as it is to our clients. Read more.

- Lust for life or burden of life?
We are all under pressure. At work. At home. From what others expect of us and what we ourselves think we should do. Or be or not be. That pressure is often unhealthy. It keeps us from what is important and wears us out. With the risk that we end up in a burnout or [...]
- What are you in search of?
Life can be predictable and boring. We have our routines, know who we are and accept that certain things happen the way they do. But sometimes things radically change. We alter the course of our life or are confronted by a major event. A major career move. A first child. Serious illness or divorce. When [...]
- Relation poison
The COVID-19 pandemic has left a huge mark on society, with overcrowded hospitals, personal tragedies, and severe restrictions. Likewise, it has impacted our most intimate relationships, especially those with our partner. Suddenly we were all locked up in the house; team meetings via Zoom in the bedroom, children having class in the living [...]

About Ilya and Fleur
In Search Of embodies what connects us as a couple. Affection and admiration. Sincerity and dedication. And the desire for inner growth. We are each other’s companion and witness to all that life brings us. That makes therapy for us just as valuable as it is to our clients. Read more.
- Lust for life or burden of life?
We are all under pressure. At work. At home. From what others expect of us and what we ourselves think we should do. Or be or not be. That pressure is often unhealthy. It keeps us from what is important and wears us out. With the risk that we end up in a burnout or [...]
- What are you in search of?
Life can be predictable and boring. We have our routines, know who we are and accept that certain things happen the way they do. But sometimes things radically change. We alter the course of our life or are confronted by a major event. A major career move. A first child. Serious illness or divorce. When [...]
- Relation poison
The COVID-19 pandemic has left a huge mark on society, with overcrowded hospitals, personal tragedies, and severe restrictions. Likewise, it has impacted our most intimate relationships, especially those with our partner. Suddenly we were all locked up in the house; team meetings via Zoom in the bedroom, children having class in the living [...]